Over at Muslimah Media Watch Egyptian blogger Eman Hashim writes about the Saudi guardianship campaign being led by two Saudi princesses: “My guardian knows what’s best for me.” It is a campaign in support of the strict male guardianship laws in that country.
Hashim is rebuked in the comments by other Muslimahs for her defense of women who choose or desire to live under male guardianship.
However, Hashim is far more critical and uncompromising when she writes about women who choose to live within the dominant paternalistic paradigm on her own blog. In a review of a movie about the fight in America to get the vote for women, she favorably quotes this line: “Women like you are worse than anti-suffragists; you perpetuate the lie everyday at breakfast.”
Then she lists her own complaints:
My god! How many times have you met a woman who voluntarily declares her stupidity and ignorance just to get a man’s attention and approval?
How many women have you talked to and they just faked inferiority to nourish a no-body guy just to get a proposal?
How many places have you gone to where women refuse to get business done with other women cause “we are not as smart as men”?
I know that a lot of my fellow doctors never went to a female doctor nor they ever intend to because “male doctors are cleverer”
I know that women don’t like to go to electronic stores and deal with saleswomen cause “we just don’t understand technology!”
I know my friends who resist any piece of information related to their laptops cause “guys just get these kinds of things not us.”
She concludes her post:
I am optimistic, I believe that someday we will be able to break those walls, that women will be that scared of being rejected by intimidated men, that women will not be ruled by what other want her to be, that women will not be scared to lead their lives, make their own choices, be ready for the consequences and live the beauty of a free life!
I don’t understand why Hashim writes with one face at Muslimah Media Watch, and another when she writes for her own blog.