AP covers family and friend’s response to Noor Almaleki death. More details about her relationship with her father, and her “marriage.” Also of note: The media is continuing to be responsible in its coverage and not bring in religion.
Marcella Andregg, a friend for seven years, described Noor as independent, but far from rebellious and always respectful of her parents. She said Noor just wanted to live her own life, but that her father wouldn’t let her.
“His whole persona was very controlling, very strong-minded in the ways he wanted it for her,” Andregg said. “He talked down to her very much, made sure she knew she wasn’t good enough and brought a lot of dishonor to the family.”
Meanwhile, she said, Noor “just wanted to be a normal teenager,” and later, wanted to finish college, marry the man she loved, and have children.
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In 2008, friends say Almaleki took Noor to Iraq under the guise of visiting family. Actually, he had picked out a husband for her and told her she couldn’t return to Arizona unless she married him. Noor married the man and returned, and friends say he was in the process of trying to move here, too.
As with Aqsa Parvez, there is a move afoot to make her an “honor killing” martyr.

mirelle 12:02 pm on November 8, 2009 Permalink |
I guess the most unsettling part for me is that this was going on just across town from where I live. However, I’d also note that there are some extreme radical Protestant Christians who believe that daughters are supposed to live at home until they get married…and that the marriage is preceded by a courtship that is approved by the father. It’s all very weird and creepy. (Google “Doug Phillips” and “daughter” to see what I mean.)
null 12:10 pm on November 8, 2009 Permalink |
Living at home until marriage and family approved courtship == very creepy?