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	<title>Comments on: In Arlington, Texas, niqabi calls for bo&#8230;</title>
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		<title>By: Willow</title>
		<link>http://talkislam.info/2009/10/27/in-arlington-texas-niqabi-calls-for-bo/#comment-17068</link>
		<dc:creator>Willow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 01:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;I think by standards of past behavior, I was actually restrained&lt;/em&gt;

Absolutely true. :) I have been enjoying the buzz without the kill.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>I think by standards of past behavior, I was actually restrained</em></p>
<p>Absolutely true. <img src='http://talkislam.info/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I have been enjoying the buzz without the kill.</p>
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		<title>By: Buzz</title>
		<link>http://talkislam.info/2009/10/27/in-arlington-texas-niqabi-calls-for-bo/#comment-17062</link>
		<dc:creator>Buzz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 00:34:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I guess, because we were disagreeing, I thought this statement:
&lt;blockquote&gt;…but I thank Allaah (swt) and then Dan and Buzz for reminding me of these important truths.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
was completely sarcastic. My mistake.

As someone who accused me of anti-Islamic rhetoric, I did not connect that he was actually being sincere. He made that clear later. So, I shot back a little sarcasm. As it turns out, I should not have done that, but if you look at the flow, it was not clear to me atleast what he was saying.

Anyway, I guess I should have been more patient and assumed that Abu Noor would fall back on traditional Islamic courtesy which is kind of his MO. I was actually surprised that I got bundled in with Dan on some disagreement they were having about Hijab or something.

Anyway, for my part, even though I think by standards of past behavior, I was actually restrained, I am sorry for any misunderstanding or insult.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess, because we were disagreeing, I thought this statement:</p>
<blockquote><p>…but I thank Allaah (swt) and then Dan and Buzz for reminding me of these important truths.</p></blockquote>
<p>was completely sarcastic. My mistake.</p>
<p>As someone who accused me of anti-Islamic rhetoric, I did not connect that he was actually being sincere. He made that clear later. So, I shot back a little sarcasm. As it turns out, I should not have done that, but if you look at the flow, it was not clear to me atleast what he was saying.</p>
<p>Anyway, I guess I should have been more patient and assumed that Abu Noor would fall back on traditional Islamic courtesy which is kind of his MO. I was actually surprised that I got bundled in with Dan on some disagreement they were having about Hijab or something.</p>
<p>Anyway, for my part, even though I think by standards of past behavior, I was actually restrained, I am sorry for any misunderstanding or insult.</p>
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		<title>By: Willow</title>
		<link>http://talkislam.info/2009/10/27/in-arlington-texas-niqabi-calls-for-bo/#comment-17059</link>
		<dc:creator>Willow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 22:39:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Patronizing is my middle name. The G is for gratuitous.

What bothered me, buzz, is that in the midst of this theoretically adult conversation you &#039;reminded&#039; Abu N to admit no partners with Allah, as if he&#039;d suggested adding And Edward is the True Soulmate of Bella to the shaheda or something. Every time a hardliner wanders through here and even &lt;em&gt;hints &lt;/em&gt;at takfir, we come down on him/her like a ton of bricks. And it works--this is one of the most takfir-free Islamic forums on the web. Abu N doesn&#039;t need an aqidah lesson, even a sarcastic one. If the salafis don&#039;t get to run around calling the most basic elements of people&#039;s faith into question, neither do the progressives. If a militant said that to &lt;em&gt;you&lt;/em&gt;, even in sarcasm, we&#039;d have chucked him out on his ass. You know we would have. The respect has to go both ways. Otherwise we&#039;re all just a bunch of posers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Patronizing is my middle name. The G is for gratuitous.</p>
<p>What bothered me, buzz, is that in the midst of this theoretically adult conversation you &#8216;reminded&#8217; Abu N to admit no partners with Allah, as if he&#8217;d suggested adding And Edward is the True Soulmate of Bella to the shaheda or something. Every time a hardliner wanders through here and even <em>hints </em>at takfir, we come down on him/her like a ton of bricks. And it works&#8211;this is one of the most takfir-free Islamic forums on the web. Abu N doesn&#8217;t need an aqidah lesson, even a sarcastic one. If the salafis don&#8217;t get to run around calling the most basic elements of people&#8217;s faith into question, neither do the progressives. If a militant said that to <em>you</em>, even in sarcasm, we&#8217;d have chucked him out on his ass. You know we would have. The respect has to go both ways. Otherwise we&#8217;re all just a bunch of posers.</p>
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		<title>By: buzz</title>
		<link>http://talkislam.info/2009/10/27/in-arlington-texas-niqabi-calls-for-bo/#comment-17043</link>
		<dc:creator>buzz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 17:14:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Self-hating? Huh?

I did not realize Abu Noor was apologizing. I thought he pulled out his Koran and condemned me as some &quot;type&quot; he keeps forgetting about. I honestly did not understand the comment.

I would not refuse any honest apology. 

I appreciate your administrative efforts but please don&#039;t overdo it. We are all adults here. We can get by even without your patronizing overtones. The discussion was in disagreement but no one was drawing blood.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Self-hating? Huh?</p>
<p>I did not realize Abu Noor was apologizing. I thought he pulled out his Koran and condemned me as some &#8220;type&#8221; he keeps forgetting about. I honestly did not understand the comment.</p>
<p>I would not refuse any honest apology. </p>
<p>I appreciate your administrative efforts but please don&#8217;t overdo it. We are all adults here. We can get by even without your patronizing overtones. The discussion was in disagreement but no one was drawing blood.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
		<link>http://talkislam.info/2009/10/27/in-arlington-texas-niqabi-calls-for-bo/#comment-17041</link>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 16:52:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Agreed Len. Sounds like the niqaabis want to have their cake and eat it, but it isn&#039;t going to work in the West.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Agreed Len. Sounds like the niqaabis want to have their cake and eat it, but it isn&#8217;t going to work in the West.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 16:51:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What sarcasm? I did accept his apology after all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What sarcasm? I did accept his apology after all.</p>
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		<title>By: Willow</title>
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		<dc:creator>Willow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 15:39:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Where to start, where to start. 

Razib, throwing something like this &lt;em&gt;anyway, gotta stop reading this website. the more i do, the more islamophobic i get&lt;/em&gt; in the faces of people who invited you here and have tried to insulate and defend you is just f*cking low. You want to leave, leave. You want to stay, stay. This crap is unworthy of you. 

And you. Buzz and Dan. &quot;Word&quot;. The twins. It&#039;s starting to sound like a self-hating echo chamber in here. I don&#039;t always agree with Abu N either, but let me tell you, if I&#039;d apologized to you and you came back at me with that kind of sarcasm I&#039;d have unloaded on you and not felt bad about it even once. Abu N must have nerves of steel. 

Everybody take a couple of deep knee-bends and get over it, mmkay? Aziz is away for a few days and I&#039;m in hall monitor mode again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Where to start, where to start. </p>
<p>Razib, throwing something like this <em>anyway, gotta stop reading this website. the more i do, the more islamophobic i get</em> in the faces of people who invited you here and have tried to insulate and defend you is just f*cking low. You want to leave, leave. You want to stay, stay. This crap is unworthy of you. </p>
<p>And you. Buzz and Dan. &#8220;Word&#8221;. The twins. It&#8217;s starting to sound like a self-hating echo chamber in here. I don&#8217;t always agree with Abu N either, but let me tell you, if I&#8217;d apologized to you and you came back at me with that kind of sarcasm I&#8217;d have unloaded on you and not felt bad about it even once. Abu N must have nerves of steel. </p>
<p>Everybody take a couple of deep knee-bends and get over it, mmkay? Aziz is away for a few days and I&#8217;m in hall monitor mode again.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
		<link>http://talkislam.info/2009/10/27/in-arlington-texas-niqabi-calls-for-bo/#comment-17036</link>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 14:23:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not offended Abu Noor. I do agree with some of the stuff you post on here so I can&#039;t hold ill will against that.

And this is the Internet so it is hard to take things seriously. I sometimes have sarcastic remarks, but I should learn to use italics next time to make it easier. 

Apology accepted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not offended Abu Noor. I do agree with some of the stuff you post on here so I can&#8217;t hold ill will against that.</p>
<p>And this is the Internet so it is hard to take things seriously. I sometimes have sarcastic remarks, but I should learn to use italics next time to make it easier. </p>
<p>Apology accepted.</p>
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		<title>By: Abu Noor</title>
		<link>http://talkislam.info/2009/10/27/in-arlington-texas-niqabi-calls-for-bo/#comment-17033</link>
		<dc:creator>Abu Noor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 14:09:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I also apologize to you Dan if I misrepresented your remarks.  If I want to respond to your posts, I should respond to the points being made rather than just labeling as &quot;troll&quot; or &quot;anti-Islam.&quot;

Please forgive me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also apologize to you Dan if I misrepresented your remarks.  If I want to respond to your posts, I should respond to the points being made rather than just labeling as &#8220;troll&#8221; or &#8220;anti-Islam.&#8221;</p>
<p>Please forgive me.</p>
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		<title>By: Abu Noor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abu Noor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 14:07:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Buzz,

Thank you for your advice.  I apologize if I misunderstood or misrepresented your remarks.  

Regardless of our differences, I do think it was a mistake of me to just lump you and Dan together.  It was done out of laziness, but I know that I don&#039;t appreciate when people just lump me together with others who are really coming with different points than I am.  

Please forgive me for my mistakes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Buzz,</p>
<p>Thank you for your advice.  I apologize if I misunderstood or misrepresented your remarks.  </p>
<p>Regardless of our differences, I do think it was a mistake of me to just lump you and Dan together.  It was done out of laziness, but I know that I don&#8217;t appreciate when people just lump me together with others who are really coming with different points than I am.  </p>
<p>Please forgive me for my mistakes.</p>
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