Update on the Noor Almaleki case, where her father Faleh Hassan Almeleki is accused of running her down:
The brother of Noor Almaleki, whom police say was run over by her father last week, has told a local television news station that the father and daughter have been in conflict the past couple of years.
Peter-Ali Almaleki told CBS 5 News that his sister went “out of her way to disrespect” her traditional Muslim father.
Noor Almaleki had married a man in Iraq but returned to the United States and moved in with a boyfriend and his mother in Surprise. The father was furious about the arrangement, according to the brother.
In addition to allegedly running down his daughter, Faleh Almaleki is alleged to have run down the mother of the boyfriend in the same incident. Noor Almaleki is still basically in a “life-threatening condition”; the boyfriend’s mother is “improving.”
I’m having to bite my tongue to keep from spilling out with some pointed commentary about men who think that their family honor is wrapped up in their daughters’ sexual behavior, to the point of attempting murder.
And this, this doesn’t make any sense to me:
Peter-Ali Almaleki said he loves his sister and that should she not have to be suffering her injuries. But he added that the family lives by different cultural values.
“One thing to one culture doesn’t make sense to another culture,” he added.
No, Peter, murder is murder, no matter what culture it’s in. You want to talk, I’m in the Phoenix phone book. I’m not that hard to find.

johnpi 9:05 pm on October 26, 2009 Permalink |
Thanks for the update Mirelle. I think there’s a tag for “honor-related violence.” Might be apropo here too.
adi 9:32 am on October 29, 2009 Permalink |
Mirelle….go ahead and say what you want…most people are just scared….her brother is a prick too……and i know her mom is behind this….her father is prolly drinkin, eating good food, and enjoyin the great freedom of america in a family friends house… celebrating his HONORABLE act
noor is an amazing person, and i hate all these pricks who have put her where she is!!!! hells too good of a place for these people!!
hector 11:37 am on October 30, 2009 Permalink |
Can wait to see this guy try to explain himself in court.
Immigration is a great thing for the people that want to scape this kind of idiots but it tarnishes a whole community when those idiots come all the way here to continue their stupid medieval acts.
Troy 1:54 pm on October 30, 2009 Permalink |
Noor is a good friend of mine, I know her brothers very well and it’s sad how your nit-picking at little qoutes and twisting his word, I can assure you this horrible act was not condoned in any way by the Almaleki famly
adi 1:54 am on November 7, 2009 Permalink |
you willing you assure your life on that assurance you are assuring us??? what makes you so sure?
Ahmed 11:27 pm on October 31, 2009 Permalink |
I dont know much about the case but as a Muslim man I cant agree with what the father did, nothing and I mean NOTHING can justify taking life. If he didnt agree with what she is doing talking to her then choosing to cut her off if he want to, but not kill her now she is almost dead and he is in jail, and the whole story is bigger than what if could have been.
adi 12:26 pm on November 1, 2009 Permalink |
noone that knew noor knew her brothers well….idk who you are troy, but have never heard of you…if you were a GOOD friend of noor, then another good friend, and maybe everyone else would have known about you too
and her brother is a prick, and his statement is full of shit!!!!
Maxwell 3:13 pm on November 1, 2009 Permalink |
What honor is there in almost killing your child, then fleeing the country to Mexico and London to escape? He is nothing but a coward that couldn’t get his way.
Alesha 3:22 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
God, Adi. Obviously you don’t know her brother, so you must not have been as “good” of a “friend” as you thought. He’s a great person, and he’s suffering from this.
If he agreed with what his dad did, because Noor was becoming too “westernized,” why would he be planning on marrying ME, a white, American girl?
adi 1:48 am on November 7, 2009 Permalink |
umm that prick is going around telling people that SHE DESERVED TO DIE…why the hell did he not stick up for her…he knew his dad was crazy, he could have stopped his FATHER, he could have been the reason NOOR could have been with us right now….does that occur to you?? and no…Noors good friends were not on good terms with peter, NONE of us were…..i do not know of most of her high school friends, but i know of her close friends up until a few years till now, and NONE of us had met ali except for a select few…..out of Noor’s 20 good friends, maybe one or two had met that fool…let alone know him well
he is marrying you because is a a muslim MAN, and a muslim man can be exempt from everything……now if noor was a boy…would she be dead….ask yourself that….
Noor was a good person, probably the only shinning light in that family, and she is dead now…because of what…SILENCE…IGNORANCE
did peter or ali or whatever, ONCE try to stick up for his sister??? noor never did anything bad…so what she had a few guy friends….huh so what? peter knew about the plan of deserting Noor back in iraq and leaving her to marry a stranger, did he do anything about it?? did he? he looks like a strong person…. did he wimp out and was scared that his dadddy might smack him in the face? what did noor do that peter didnt do? he has a white gf, he had white friends, female friends, what did noor do that was soo WESTERN? what was so WESTERNIZED about her, peters seems pretty westernized to me…he wants to mary a WESTERN GIRL….why wasnt he ran over by his FATHER as he was leaving the office while getting welfare for being toooo WESTERN
huh?? why?? this the man you want to marry? you think he will be okay with your daughter having boyfriends? you think he will be okay with your daugther bein too WESTERNIZED???
think about all this…..i dont care if this angers anyone, you or for all i care him, i have had the will to hurt him, many people i know have the will to hurt him, but we wont stoop down to that level, i know that after you telling him my response, he will be out looking for me…maybe he will try to kick my ass….but whatever, even if he gets to me, even if he finds me and even kills me….i know this…WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND….you think a man like him is going to heaven? u think a man like him wont rot in hell……think again ALESHA….think again
NOONE is as hurt about Noor than her friends, than her close friends who TRULY considered Noor their sister….she was a sister to me, and i feel as if i am missing a whole chunk of my life because she is gone….
its her friends who are TRULY sorry, truly missing her, truly saddened by what has happened, and the ones truly HURT…with her younger siblings being an exception….the younger siblings (not ali) for who Noor returned back to that place called home
Luisa Valdez 6:07 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
i am sorry to hear that Noor has passed away today. my regards to your family and friends and hopes of awareness and education both in and out of the muslim community….
johnpi 6:52 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
More about Noor Almaleki at Talk Islam here, including a partial transcript of what the prosecutor said in court.
Abe Lincoln 8:29 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
Mr. Almaleki did the right thing and deserves an enormous amount of respect for the sacrifice he decided to make. I’m not Muslim, I’m not arab, and I don’t know this family or the details of the story beyond what’s been written in the newspaper.
But I have a tremendous amount of respect for the courage Mr. Almaleki demonstrated.
Buzz 8:34 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
Honest Abe. Sure Abe. Where is Booth when you need him?
aziz 8:40 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
weak, man. Can you hone your craft elsewhere before you try again? We expect our trolls to have some actual skill.
antonette57 9:54 pm on November 8, 2009 Permalink |
How much courage does it take to murder someone, why do you respect a murderer that left the country and hid like the coward that he is.
Do you have brain damage?
True Blooded 8:33 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
LOL…U Call yourself Abe Lincoln and make a statement like that? Do you know anything about American history and the figures who shaped it? Thank God not any Muslims. They all need exported back to the Middle East as NONE of them can be trusted in our country. Take your idiotic ideals and beat it.
Buzz 8:37 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
That is called a gadfly TB. Get a hold of yourself and try to keep a lid on your prejudices. Abe is looking for just such reactions. Try not to be so cooperative.
True Blooded 8:45 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
No need to get a hold, I’m fine. And yes, unfortunately in today’s world I AM prejudice and proud of it.
Dan 5:17 pm on November 3, 2009 Permalink |
Yeah sure you are, let’s see how tough you are by expressing it publicly. Don’t start crying when you get a broken nose as a result of the prejudice that you proudly express, okay?
Abe Lincoln 9:06 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
This isn’t a Muslim question. This is a question about human rights as they relate to personal jurisdiction over one’s offspring.
Mr. Almaleki decided to exercise the ultimate act of punishment (execution) on his own child because he accepted accountability for her actions. What he did was a beautiful act beyond the threshold of the Western public’s media indoctrinated comprehension.
Americans have been programmed to categorically reject Islam primae facie and embrace lets say, homosexuality and hip-hop primae facie. Which is hilarious, if you want to talk “lol” – or in terms of hypocrisy.
Look at Mr. Almaleki’s actions from a macro perspective (deontological or utilitarian). Yes, imagine a world where fathers are allowed to kill their rebellious, whoring daughters…and the impudent, meddlesome boyfriend’s mothers who facilitate their daughter’s delinquency (as in this case). We wouldn’t have many whoring daughters who get married to one man and then run off and live with another…would we? Nope, because girls would know that dad is going to beat some ass if he finds out his little darling wants to play MTV hooker/superstar. Suddenly people would think twice about frolicking outside the bounds of social mores and folkways, because accountability would be enforced by family members. Ah, a homogeneous society-the antithesis of modern America.
But wait. I forgot. You all bitching about cultural relativism, arencha? Its ok to be cultural if you’re a man who wants to pretend to be a woman and adopt children…but not if you want to enforce your traditional “Muslim” values…
Buzz 9:59 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
Wow Abe! No idea you were actually serious. So I guess we can say you are pro-choice up to atleast 20 years old. Kind of nutty. Talk about late term abortions.
adi 1:50 am on November 7, 2009 Permalink |
oh my god shut the fuck up!!!!!!
you fucking prick….you will rot in the same hell that bastard is about to rot in
anonymous 2:06 pm on November 7, 2009 Permalink |
Abe,
while you may be correct about a father’s right to take the life of his offspring in Iraq (I don’t know), you are missing a fundamental part of the equation. This did not take place in Iraq, or anywhere else with a twisted sense of family honour; this event took place in the United States of America, and in America, Noor was not just his daughter, she was a FREE WOMAN.
Faleh Almaleki had no more right to take the life of Noor Almaleki than he does to take your life, or mine.
If you don’t want people around you to be westernized, then GET OUT OF THE WEST.
Unfortunately, other men with their confused sense of what is acceptable here won’t learn from his mistakes because the media is more worried about not offending people than they are about covering this tragedy of cultures.
JOn 10:00 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
Abe …. no othre way to say it …you are a frickin’ moron
Desiree 11:09 pm on November 2, 2009 Permalink |
Adi- Troy is a really good friend of Noor’s. Just because you didn’t know of all Noor’s friends doesn’t mean that she didn’t have close relationships with people outside of the relationship she had with you. And they are many of us whom were close to Noor that know her brothers. Noor’s brother is a really nice person. But anyways this thread she be only about one thing and that’s honoring Noor’s memory. She was a beautiful person and will be greatlly missed. R.I.P Noor I love you.
Michael John Gamache 11:21 pm on November 3, 2009 Permalink |
The SOB that did this crime should be used as an example. Locked away, made a media ‘darling’ to bring to the WHOLE WORLD a solid statement that this behavior is criminal and in no way condoned by free thinking individuals anywhere.
The father of this girl, is obviously an emotional misfit, that he could allow his OWN emotions over the actions of his daughter, to drive this act. I hope there is capital punishment in this state.
AbuKhallad 10:13 am on November 4, 2009 Permalink |
I’m surprised that people gloss over the name of the boyfreind’s mother who was also injured: She is Amal Khalaf, and she is also Iraqi. She is not an anonymous victim.
So, there is nothing in this about a conflict between Islam and the West despite people trying to paint it this way. This could easily, and certainly does happen even in Baghdad.
AbuKhallad 10:19 am on November 4, 2009 Permalink |
@Alesha: you really need to understand Iraqi culture better. Its totally fine for him to marry you because its celebrated when an Iraqi man conquers a woman from another people. But, many families loose thier minds when thier daughter wants to choose who give her reproductive capacity to. It sounds crude, but this is how it is. Its called a double standard. Get used to it because you’ll live with it the rest of your life with him.
Amilia 10:48 am on November 4, 2009 Permalink |
ABDUKHALLAD – Tellme how do you know this is not a conflict about Islam and the west? Do you mean the father was angry at her choice of partner??
AbuKhallad 1:34 pm on November 4, 2009 Permalink |
It doesn’t seem to be and it does seem that he simply did not like her choosing at all. But, this is wholly in Iraqi culture, old style though because its starting to go away. In Islam, children should have thier parent’s permission, but the parents also have to have the couple’s consent. I’m betting her marriage in Iraq was not Islamically valid because she was likely coerced into it and then bailed out when she could. Islam was on her side, but the men who manipulate do so to ensure religion serves them instead of them serving God and not killing thier own children. He’ll burn unless God has an untold amount of mercy on his soul, which he does not deserve, IMHO.
johnpi 1:55 pm on November 4, 2009 Permalink |
<i. I’m betting her marriage in Iraq was not Islamically valid because she was likely coerced into it
Are you saying she was already married in Iraq? Where are you hearing that from?
abunoor 3:20 pm on November 4, 2009 Permalink |
John, the story linked at the top of this thread (in the portion excerpted) says:
johnpi 8:10 pm on November 4, 2009 Permalink |
Uggh. Following too many stories…
Jeremy 2:55 pm on November 10, 2009 Permalink |
Wow. This girl was GORGEOUS, and a GROWN WOMAN! She was free to do ANYTHING she wanted to do! The father will get what he deserves in prison im sure! I bet anal sex is HIGHLY frowned upon in his sick and twisted mind! Honestly those prisoners will take care of him! Bet on that! Then he will have a new understanding of HONOR period. Give up that a$$ to honor your new cell mate! HOLLAAAAA! I’m sure he’s being broken in right about NOW! Poor girl! Wish I could’ve met her in life, but if life lives elsewhere, I will get the full scoop when the time comes! and she’ll be my new bestie!
Jeremy 3:19 pm on November 10, 2009 Permalink |
Abe is a trip! How bout you just honor us all and put the gun in ur mouth!
Satori 5:31 pm on November 16, 2009 Permalink |
Does anyone know where Faleh Almaleki, Noor’s father, is? He was supposed to be arraigned in Court, then the news released that he was placed on suicide watch, and this situation would preclude his requirement to attend the hearing. Since that time, nothing has been reported as to his whereabouts and the Arizona Department of Corrections Inmate Locator shows Mr. Alameki as never being in the system . . . . does anyone know? Has the Jihad assisted in helping this disgusting Muslim “man” to escape justice and his well-deserved butt-screwing?
niotis karagorgiou 6:19 am on November 30, 2009 Permalink |
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